The birth of a new life is a moment of irreplaceable joy for family and friends.
On such an important milestone, you'd want to give a baby gift to express your congratulations.
However, when it comes to actually giving a gift, many people may find themselves unsure about how much to give, whether to give cash, or to choose a gift.
Here, we will explain in an easy-to-understand manner the average price of a baby gift, how to give either a gift or cash, and whether it is okay to give both.
[Average price range for baby gifts]
First, let's look at the average amount for each relationship. There is a range of appropriate amounts depending on the position and closeness of the giver.
| Relationships | Estimated price |
|---|---|
| Friends and Colleagues | 3,000 yen to 5,000 yen |
| Close friends/friends from school | 5,000 yen to 10,000 yen |
| Brothers and sisters | 10,000 yen to 30,000 yen |
| Relatives (cousins, etc.) | 5,000 yen to 10,000 yen |
| Boss/superior | 5,000 to 10,000 yen (gifts are safer than cash) |
| Neighbors and acquaintances | Around 3,000 yen |
*Please note that this may vary depending on local customs and relationships with the family, so please use this as a guide only.
[Should I give it as a gift? Or cash?]
Baby gifts can be broadly divided into two patterns: "presents" and "cash (congratulatory money)." Each has its merits, so choose according to the recipient's situation and your own feelings.
◆ In case of gifts
Popular items include baby products (baby clothes, bibs, swaddling clothes, diaper cakes, etc.), items useful for childcare, personalized items, picture books, etc. Recently, more and more people are giving relaxing items and sweets as a "reward for moms."
Recommended for:
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They are good friends and know your preferences and lifestyle.
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I want to give a unique gift that no one else has
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I want to convey my feelings by handing it over to someone
◆ In case of cash
Giving cash is also a practical and appreciated option, as it can be placed in a gift envelope for the recipient to use however they like.
Recommended for:
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When you want to give a gift to siblings or other relatives with a large amount of money
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When you don't know what you need but want to send a message of congratulations
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When you're too busy to choose a gift
◆Is it okay to give both?
Of course you can give both. For example:
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Mainly cash, with a few baby items
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Prepare a gift and later give them a small amount of cash separately with the message "Don't worry about returning the gift"
However, it is important to be mindful of the overall balance (such as keeping the total amount within 10,000 yen) and the relationship, so as not to give the other person the impression that it is a burden or that you are making them feel uncomfortable.
When is the right time to give a baby gift?
Generally, the guideline is within one week to one month after giving birth .
The best time to deliver the baby is after the seventh day after birth, when the mother and baby have stabilized in health. It is a good idea to check in advance with your family and deliver the baby at a time that is not too difficult for them.
Gift envelope etiquette (when giving cash)
When giving cash as a gift, be sure to pay attention to the gift envelope.
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Envelope: Usually "Congratulations on the birth of your child" or "Congratulations"
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**Mizuhiki: **Red and white bow (used for any celebration)
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**Inner envelope:** Write the amount and your name, put new bills inside and wrap it carefully.
Finally
Baby gifts are meant to convey warm feelings such as "Thank you for being born" and "You did a great job." Don't get too hung up on the price range, but try to convey the giver's feelings and thoughtfulness towards the recipient.
Whatever the form, we hope that this gift will gently accompany the beginning of your new family.