Marriage is a big milestone in life. The gift you give to celebrate this new beginning requires a little etiquette and consideration, as well as heartfelt congratulations. Let's review basic etiquette so that your important feelings are properly conveyed.
1. Be careful about the timing of your gift
The standard rule for sending wedding gifts is one to two months to one week before the wedding. It is common to only bring a gift on the day of the wedding. Even if there is no ceremony, it is recommended to send the gift within one month of the registration or announcement. Send the gift at the best possible time, taking into consideration the couple's schedules.
2. Gift Wrapping Manners
Red and white "musubi-kiri" (a traditional wrapping paper) are standard for wedding gifts. On the front of the gift, write "Kotobuki" (longevity) or "Wedding Congratulations" and don't forget to include the giver's name. For wrapping, clean, subdued colors make a good impression. Pay attention to the appearance so that the giver's thoughtfulness is conveyed.
3. Beware of taboo items
Be careful, as there are some items that are not suitable for celebrations. Knives and scissors are associated with "cutting ties," and combs are avoided because they have connotations of "suffering" and "death." It is also important to take into consideration religion and local customs. If you are unsure, it is recommended to choose a standard gift that is considered auspicious.
4. Consideration for the recipient
They will be happy if you choose something that suits the couple's lifestyle, such as practical items that will be useful in their new life or matching items that the couple can use together. Gifts that are in line with their preferences will convey your feelings of congratulations more deeply. It is also important to choose something that is not too expensive and can be easily received, and that is a size that is easy to carry home.
Conclusion
The best gift is one that shows consideration for the recipient while also following proper etiquette. Why not choose a gift that will gently accompany the couple on their new beginning? A carefully chosen gift is sure to be a memorable one.