Etiquette for small gifts to accompany the start of a new life together
There are two types of wedding celebrations: engagement celebrations and wedding celebrations.
Both are gifts given at auspicious occasions, but there are differences in the meaning, timing, and content of the gifts. Let's briefly review the differences so that you can convey your important feelings more carefully.
What is an engagement gift?
Congratulations to a couple who have officially exchanged vows to marry <br data-end="289" data-start="286">An engagement gift is a celebration of two people making a promise to marry. After the official engagement is announced, it is often given by very close friends and family, with the intention of "supporting the couple as they make preparations for their wedding."
The timing for giving the gift is generally within one month of getting engaged. If a betrothal ceremony is being held , it can be given before that, or in a more casual setting, at a celebratory dinner party.
What is a wedding gift?
A gift of celebration for the start of a new life together <br data-end="536" data-start="533">Wedding gifts are given after receiving the news of the wedding ceremony or marriage registration . Regardless of whether or not a ceremony is held, the date of registration serves as a good guideline. The basic principle of wedding gifts is to show support for the couple as they build a new family and to express wishes for a long and happy life together.
The general timing for sending gifts is between one to two months and one week before the wedding . If you are sending a gift in addition to the wedding money, it is polite to have it delivered to your home in advance.
Differences in gifts
For engagement gifts , casual gifts that are not too formal, such as bouquets of flowers, sweets, or miscellaneous items , are often chosen to subtly convey the feelings of celebration. Gifts that are in line with the person's hobbies and lifestyle are also appreciated.
On the other hand, for wedding gifts , it is common to choose items that are rooted in daily life, such as kitchen utensils and towel sets that will be useful in the new life, matching items that the couple can use, etc. If you are close to the person, researching their preferences and needs will make the gift more heartfelt.
Should I give an engagement gift or a wedding gift?
The decision of whether to give a wedding gift or an engagement gift depends on your relationship with the recipient and the situation .
Engagement gifts are generally given when the person has not been invited to the wedding or before the wedding.
Wedding gifts are usually given when invited to a wedding or after the wedding.
It is common to give one or the other, but it is appropriate to give a wedding gift, especially if you have been invited to a wedding.
Conclusion
By knowing the meaning of engagement gifts and wedding gifts, you can convey your feelings more carefully. Celebrations are not just about giving things, but also about expressing warm feelings that can replace the words "Congratulations" and "I support you."
Why not enjoy choosing a gift that will gently accompany you both through your lives?