Mother's Day is a special day to express feelings of gratitude that are difficult to express on a regular basis. When giving a gift, it is important to not only choose the item, but also to carefully consider how and when to convey your feelings.

1. Express gratitude first

The original purpose of Mother's Day is to convey "thank you" to your mother for her daily support. Rather than focusing on expensive gifts, it is better to value heartfelt messages and thoughtfulness. It is recommended to include a message of thanks with the gift.

2. Respect the other person's preferences

It is important to choose a Mother's Day gift that matches your mother's hobbies and lifestyle, so as not to be self-indulgent on the part of the giver. Choose an item that will be enjoyed without any strain, taking into consideration her preferences, physical condition, and ease of use.

3. Expand your options beyond just carnations

Carnations are a classic Mother's Day gift, but in recent years, more and more people are giving other flowers, such as roses and hydrangeas. In addition to fresh flowers, preserved flowers and potted plants that you can enjoy growing are also popular. Choose the type of flower that suits the recipient.

4. Beware of taboo words and bad luck

When giving flowers, be mindful of "good luck." For example, white carnations are considered to be given to deceased mothers, so they are generally avoided as gifts for living mothers. Also, potted plants are sometimes associated with "taking root = illness taking root," so fresh flowers or preserved flowers are a safe bet for those who are worried about their health.

5. Timing matters

The standard is to arrange for the gift to arrive on Mother's Day, but since delivery congestion is expected during this time of year, try to order and ship well in advance. Even if you hand it over early, adding a "Mother's Day wish" will show your sincerity.

6. Include a message card

Even if it's just a simple message, a handwritten message can bring great joy. Try sending a card to express those words you normally can't say, such as "Thank you" or "Thank you for everything."

summary

When giving a Mother's Day gift, it is more important to convey your feelings of gratitude than to give a material gift. Make this a special day by giving a thoughtful message that is considerate of the recipient's situation.

■Recommended gifts for Mother's Day■

• Carnations and seasonal bouquets are a Mother's Day staple. They are gorgeous and convey your gratitude directly.

• Sweets and gourmet gifts Popular sweets and seasonal fruits are gifts that are sure to be appreciated.

• We also recommend gifts that provide relaxation, such as bath salts, aroma items, and massage equipment.

• Stylish accessories, fashion items such as scarves and accessories, and other items that can be used everyday are very popular.

• In recent years, giving "memories" rather than experience gifts or travel vouchers has become increasingly popular.
  

■Gifts to avoid on Mother's Day■

• White flowers (especially white carnations)
  White is associated with Buddhism, so it is considered inappropriate for Mother's Day.

• It is best to avoid the word handkerchief as it is reminiscent of "tegire" (parting).

• Comb
  It is not suitable as a gift because it is associated with suffering and death.

• It can be difficult to convey gratitude or feelings when giving only cash or gift certificates , so it is important to be considerate and include a message.