Childbirth is a major turning point in life, and the birth of a new life is a very happy event. Baby gifts are a way to convey this feeling of celebration, but it is important to give them with consideration to the physical condition of the baby and mother, as well as the family situation.
■ Be careful about the timing of celebrations
Immediately after birth, both mother and child are in poor health, and it is a hectic time when childcare has just begun. It is common to give birth gifts within 7 days to 1 month after birth, depending on the recipient's condition.
If you plan to visit them in person, be sure to contact them in advance to confirm their availability. Don't try to force a meeting; just sending a delivery or a message will be enough to convey your feelings.
■ Consideration of language and messages
When sending a message celebrating the birth, include bright and warm words such as "Congratulations" and "We look forward to meeting your baby."
However, some people may have mixed feelings depending on the physical condition of the mother and child and the circumstances of the birth, so it is safer to avoid definitive phrases such as "I'm glad you had an easy birth."
■ How to choose a gift
The general guideline for the amount of a gift is 3,000 to 5,000 yen for a friend and around 10,000 yen for a relative.
Popular gifts for newborn babies include baby items (bibs, gauze, underwear, etc.), childcare items, and gifts of appreciation for the mother.
●Size and material <br>Choose the size that suits your baby's age and the season. Materials that are gentle on the skin are safe.
●Personalized items <br>Personalized gifts are appreciated, but it is best to avoid them if the name has not been made public.
Cash and gift certificates are practical and often appreciated, but depending on the relationship, you need to consider the formality.
■ Gifts to avoid <br>Items that are too large or difficult to store: Choose gifts that won't take up space in your living space.
Foods with strong scents or foods that may cause allergies: Consider the effect on babies and breastfeeding mothers.
Things that are considered unlucky: Handkerchiefs (associated with separation) and combs (suffering and death) are generally avoided.
■ About gift wrapping and gift tags
It is common to wrap gifts in a noshi paper with inscriptions such as "Congratulations on the birth of a child" or "Congratulations on the birth of a child." For casual gifts, it is okay to simply add a ribbon or a message card to show your feelings.
lastly,
Thoughtfulness is the greatest gift.
No matter how wonderful a gift is, if you don't show consideration for the recipient's feelings and lifestyle, it can become a burden.
The best gift you can give is words and actions that show consideration for the other person's situation, such as "Don't push yourself, make sure you get plenty of rest" or "Let me know if you need anything."
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