What should you give to your parents on the first festival?
- A way to express gratitude through celebrations and dinner parties -
A baby's first festival. It is also a special day for grandparents, who pray for the healthy growth of their beloved grandchild.
On the first Doll Festival, people often receive gifts from their parents (or grandparents), and many worry about what to give in return.
In this article, we will gently and carefully introduce how to think about giving a gift to your parents for celebrating the First Doll Festival, as well as how to host a dinner party and choose a gift .
■ Do I need to give something back to my parents?
The first thing you should know is that giving a gift in return to your parents (or grandparents) for the Hatsu-Sekku is not something you have to do.
In most households, there is no need to give a gift in return.
However, if you receive a Hina doll or May doll as a gift, or if you receive a gift of money or goods ,
Expressing your gratitude in a tangible way is a subtle and pleasant gesture.
■ There are many ways to give back
When giving thanks to your parents, it is recommended not only to give them a gift, but also to express your feelings in a gentler way, such as by inviting them to a dinner party .
① Host a dinner party
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It is very enjoyable to have a meal together as a family on the day of the festival or before or after it.
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You can cook a meal at home or eat out. The best way to show your appreciation is to spend time together enjoying the company of your adorable grandchildren.
At a dinner party, it would be even more polite to bring a box of sweets or a small memento instead of a gift.
② Give back with a gift
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As a guideline, the amount should be about one-third to one-half of the amount received or gifted .
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We recommend practical items or gourmet gifts that you can enjoy together , based on your parents' tastes.
example:
Assortment of seasonal Japanese sweets
Luxury fruits and gift catalogs
Gifts with photos of your grandchildren (photo frames, original mugs, etc.)
■ Etiquette for gift tags and envelopes
When giving a gift to parents, if you want to express your gratitude in a proper way, it is a good idea to include a noshi .
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Mizuhiki: Red and white bow
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Inscription: "First Boy's Festival Celebration" or "Celebration"
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Name: Your child's name (with furigana)
If you want to maintain a natural atmosphere, choosing soft colors and paper for the wrapping and gift tag will give a gentle impression.
■ Express your feelings by adding a message
Even just adding a few words can make the exchange more heartfelt.
✉ Example:
"Thank you very much for the wonderful celebration on the occasion of XX's first festival.
I hope you will continue to watch over them as they grow healthily.
We will send you a small gift as a thank you gift."
If you add photos, a card or a letter with pictures of the festival decorations, it will become a treasured gift for your parents.
■ Summary
The first festival is a milestone day not only for the child but for the whole family.
When giving something back to your parents, the most important thing is to express your gratitude gently , without getting too caught up in strict rules.
Enjoy a meal together or a heartfelt gift.
We hope that this will be a warm celebration that conveys "thank you" and "I look forward to working with you in the future."